Reflections on my first helpout in a dating skills bootcamp

Haha, I’m so late at posting this out!

This blogpost is written as a reflection of the previous one

Well its great to meet a handful of clients who want to improve their dating and social life and get it handled.

Clients from China to Australia attended the bootcamp. I was introduced as an alumnus and intern of Aura Dating Academy (nyehehe) and here it goes..

The moment I said “hey guys” with a smile to the bootcamp participants, I’ve got different responses and of course they’re positive, warm smiles everywhere but one guy stood up from the rest. He had a stern look on his face, with a natural frown. From there, he just gave me a nod (maybe its a sign that he approves or acknowledges of me). And lol, I really hate such a response. Its a big nono if you wanna be good friends with me. But I do understand that maybe he’s not used to being social so I just smiled to him. I know that when this guy starts smiling, he’ll definitely improve a lot. He did get comments from people that he doesn’t look bad at all..if he smiles.

 

I found out that doing bootcamps is not an easy task at all. Pimple breakouts everywhere. Stop thinking about my crotch please, thank you . Working alongside Dr. Asian Rake, David Tian I know that I have a long way to go to be at least at his level of skill when it comes to improving the lives of people especially at the part of Love. I lost count at how many years he’s been helping men improve themselves at being good with people, especially women. That’s a good news for me; the sky is really the limit for this young chap writing this blogpost down

 

Its great to be able to work with everyone involved with the Attraction Accelerated Bootcamp. The students have improved and grown a lot over the bootcamp, and I’m proud to say that they have convinced themselves to break through their own limits. Let’s keep in touch, peeps!

 

Keep it real~

RyAurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA

 

Ry Aurjandro – Appearing on a Bootcamp from 3rd – 5th February / More announcements

Folks, I’ll be sitting in on Aura Dating Academy’s Attraction Accelaration Bootcamp tomorrow, on the 3rd of February. My role? I’ll most probably be helping out.

 

I’m not sure if I have any readers from overseas, but whether you’re a Singaporean or not, don’t hesitate to sign up for any future bootcamps through David on Aura Dating Academy‘s website. I’ve been mentored by this guy, so I know how good he at making guys become good with women. There are a couple of testimonials that you can find by clicking here.

 

And of course you can read my experiences on the few previous posts. Not to mention, you can get to David’s blog and read his clients’ reports and his materials that are posted up for us to learn from.

 

What’s next for Mr Ry Aurjandro? I’m not so sure yet. Currently, I’m really concentrating on getting my personal finances to get back in good shape. After that, I might never know. Maybe I’ll be travelling a lot. Maybe I’ll be aiming to get a degree. Maybe I’ll migrate to another country, coach there, work there, set up a social circle full of women from the elite + a few cool guys and probably set up a modelling agency, and get a girlfriend from there (Sounds badass..but who knows. Maybe it might happen ). Maybe I’ll settle down with a girl over here. There’s a lot of plans which I’ve just started taking actions on. And there are even more possibilities of things that might happen. For now, just follow me on my journey alright? I mean, I personally find that the websites of many dating experts or PUAs do not involve their personal lives that much, and I wish to be as more personal as possible with you – my readers!

 

So stay tuned, people. I’ll be helping Aura Dating Academy in some in-field nights, mentoring students who want to get close to me and maybe even more which I’ve never imagined of if David wants me to help. I’ll also be getting Ryme (I’m keeping my identity disclosed unless you’re under some coaching or programme which as relations to me for privacy purposes) to give a few dating advices via video interviews in our exclusive blog Q&A session! So send us some questions over here, your question might appear on our videos and we’ll be answering that questions where we can.

 

Keep it real~

My Journey in Aura Dating Academy as a Student Part 1 (Pre-student Phase)

Hey people,

On the 26^th of January this year (2012), I’ll be graduating from Aura Dating Academy as a student.

So right now, it’s time for me to share with you guys my journey here as a student.

It was the 26^th of January 2011 when I came up to David after our selection rounds to see if we’re qualified to get in to the Academy. It was also known as the admissions congress, and that is the second admissions congress that the Academy has conducted. I sat down right in front of him across the table.

“Hey, I have the money now. When can I start?”

Until now, I can’t believe I said that. I swear I couldn’t afford for the course at all (being jobless, really young and coming from a low-income family). But I did everything that I could to get into this once in a life-time opportunity. Like seriously, think about it: a full-year course which offers everything that you need in order to be good with people especially with women and the price is really not bad. It’s beyond what I could afford, but I’ve never got such a good offer before. So what did I do? I pushed the problems aside and went for the opportunity that was given to me. I told myself that If I want it badly enough, I would do my best to grab the opportunity. So in I went, and the birth of Ry Aurjandro started here.

I’ve paid, I’m officially a student, and there’s no looking back.

(to be continued)

The Pleasure I Feel from Knowing that a Follower/Mentee is Satisfied

Hey guys, I’ve been receiving fanmails from some of you and I let me tell you that I really appreciate them. Actually, I never expected them to come.

This blog is written not for Ry Aurjandro to become more popular. It is written so that I can benefit as many people as I can on their love life and social skills. I still wonder why these fanmails and business offers (yep, there are a couple of peeps who came to me offering deals and stuffs. wow) would come to me of all people. Oh well. I should be grateful. Thanks everyone!

And just to share a conversation that I had on facebook with a friend of mine who follows this blog:

Friend: dun be too cocky when I say this… But I like ur blog man!! its freaking awesome

Me: yeah. Im erecting now

Friend: yeah I knw man… Did u knw I changed my number ??

Me: nope

Friend: alryt will text u. Call me *flyiing kisses* hahahaha

Me: goddit. By the way, what do u like about my blog?

Friend: cuz My mind recently have been fucked up

Me: okay. and??

…2-5 minutes passed…

Me: aannnddd??

Friend:  I have like lost control of my anxiety cuz of trying to learn how to pump Buying Temperature to a woman… I didnt dare to approach anymore, I keep reading game stuffs, watching movies trying to learn, and going out everyday to “pick up”… Nothing worked… I went to ur blog, I read alot of the posts abt how disgusted u are with guys doing tht, and I thought, yeah, I feel disgusted doing tht… And I rread on having an interesting lifestyle, doing things you are passionate about, and thts when it hit me… I loved approaching women, cuz its unexpected. Like u see one hot girl all of a sudden, and ur mind goes GO GO GO.

Me: YEAH BROO!!!

haha, that’s what I’m talking about

Friend: and I realised the reason why I am fucked is cuz I got “game” in my head and thts the reason I am failing

Me: you get the code! yep, I had no “pick up” mindset whenever I talk to anyone. I just talk.

Friend: And that’s what I did on Saturday. And I had loads of fuckin fun! so your blog brought me to the right direction. hahaha

Me: heh. Pleasure to help

Friend: Thanks man.

Me: Thank YOU

Do you know how happy I was, knowing that I can change lives, and help people start making their lives become better? The previous conversation might not be a testimonial with a Lay Report attached to it, but I don’t really care. What matters is that this young man over here will find his way to becoming an attractive social man.

Peace!

Keep it real~

Ry Aurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA

 

Like Seriously Children? Get a Life.

ARRGHH!

I’m still kinda pissed although this happened 3 weeks ago. Actually, I’m amused. Maybe a little pitiful.

As we speak right now, there are hundreds of guys out there who have poisoned their own minds with “game”. Either because they have been misled or have misunderstood the things that they have learnt. Many decided to be social robots and claim to be “Pick Up Artists”. Well boys, good for you.

While you are down there in the clubs talking about pickup theories or lines or observing “sets” for the night, I’m flirting with the chicks, enjoying my night and making sure those chicks are enjoying there. I’d suggest that you stick to what you’re doing while I flirt with the girls that you should have been flirting with (but you’re down there being a pickup weirdo).

Written below are two incidences where two different groups of weirdos kinda turned my night awkward. They aren’t the biggest weirdo in the world, but they’re weird enough to be mentioned to my blog. So congratulations! Anyway, I’ve talked about these guys to Lt Walker, and his response was worse than mine. At least I’m nice. Very. Nice.

 

 

This happened outside a club where I frequent once in a while.

I was outside the club with my group of girls and we were about to enter the club when someone tapped on my shoulder.

[Weirdo boy] *his group of other guys is watching him, and they were all behind him. I recalled that this is a group of 3 or 4 people.* Hey! Are you one of the Aura students?

[Me] *I thought to myself: “Wow interesting! Popularity level upzZ”, I’m cheeky, I know. >:D* Hey man! Yeah, I am. Ry Aurjandro, pleased to meet you. *I smiled warmly to him*

[Weirdo boy] *introduced himself and we shook hands* We’re around here to pickup girls.

You pressed the wrong button pal, but okay.. I’ll try to be nice.

[Me] ..Right.. I’m here to just chill out with my friends over here.

[Weirdo boy] So, do we get to see you in action tonight?

[Me] Nah bro, I don’t go to clubs to do that. I just chill out and make sure my friends have fun

[Weirdo boy] Okay then. We’ll be off. We’re gonna meet some girls tonight. *Signalled his friends to move with him.*

[Me] -.-”

 

If you’re out with a “predator mindset”, like you’re “hunting” for girls, pussies, cats, or whatsoever, you’re never gonna make it. Women sense that creepiness from a mile away.

 

So we got into a club, and I made sure the rest of my friends have things to do in the club. And then I got approached by two other guys. (Somehow, I happen to attract guys too.  =(  )

[Tall guy] Hey, I know you.

[Me] Of course you do! hehehe. *trying to sound calm and cheeky at the same time*

[Tall guy] You’re one of David’s students right?

[Me] Well you can say he’s my mentor..

[Tall guy] Wow! I just met a pick up artist!

[Me] Gosh, what the hell man?

[Tall guy] Don’t worry, noone here probably knows what’s a pickup artist

[Me] Dude, I ain’t one. I just happen to be a guy who love women. And I’m a social guy.

[Tall guy]*with sarcasm* Yeah yeah..

[Me] ..Whatever.. *I got turned off*

[Short guy] So is this your peacock? *Pointing to one of my fashion accessories.*

[Me] Erm.. its fashion.. You know.. like trying to look good..

[Tall guy] *Places his empty beer bottle in between to girls on a table. The girls started to look at the bottle.*

[Me] *being a nice guy, I took a step towards them to take the bottle*

[Tall guy] *stopped me.* That’s our “set.

URGH! I was so frustrated. Fuck it! But still, I was nice enough to show my expressionless face to them.

[Me] Oh?

[Tall guy] Yeah, until two white caucasians started talking to them..

[Me] *I really wanted to disappear from them* Hey dude.. learn to be social. Even if you’re interested in girls, it doesn’t mean you can’t talk to guys too. I’ve got to go. Bye. *walked off*

 

For the rest of the night when they were at my sight, they were doing their practices (which is good) but with that creepiness, they can never go far.

Don’t ever be a big time social robot who analyzes things like that. And learn to listen to people. You can really tell if a person is comfortable with you or not, so don’t ever be a creepy little ass or else people won’t like you.

 

Stay tuned for more posts!

 

Keep it real~

Ry Aurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA

Finally: Reaching the Mastery Level of Aura Dating Academy

Hey everyone,

The news has been spread for quite a bit but finally, I’ve achieved the level of Mastery in Aura Dating Academy, which is the
top level in the academy at the 2nd of December.

Would like to thank everyone who has played a part to get me where I am right now which includes the people who mentored me, helped me, winged me and gave me advices. Not to mention the girls who talked to me, connected to me and also the ones who blew me off.

Note that this is not the end of my journey because there’s still so much for me to learn.

I’ll still post as much as I can to write about my experiences and advices for all of you out there.

More adventures, more crazy incidents, more makeouts, more problems and more of what you want to read

Keeping it real as always~

Ry Aurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA

My first ever LR: The porn incident (bow chika bow bow)

WARNING!! This LR was written with all of my silliness some months back. Hahaha. Some stuffs are a bit TMI, so bear with it.

 

Was about to meet my friends at Serai Makan Place in Geylang, which was near to Eunos MRT.
I was wearing my sleeveless hoodies with the collar standing up, my tight grey shirt and my black pants. Of course, I wouldn’t leave out the chain on my left wrist and two leather wristbands on my right wrist.
Alighted the MRT at around 8.30pm, and walked out of the station when I saw a woman asking people how to get to her place. So I just moved on, until she approached me. Lets call her Nicky.
[Nicky] Hey, do you think this place is safe?
[Me] Yeah, it’s pretty much okay to me. Do you feel unsafe?
[Nicky] Yeah, I wanna get to (her address). Do you know how to get there?
[Me] Hmm, I’m not so sure, but I can accompany you ‘til you get back. (:
[Nicky] Okay thank you..
And so.. we walked.. Introduced each other’s name..
[Me] You must be a foreigner. Where are you from?
[Nicky] Oh, I’m from China.
[Me] Really? You’re living alone I guess?
[Nicky] No, I live with my friends.
[Me] I see.. How long are you gonna stay here?
[Nicky] Well, til September.
[Me] Really? You seem like you travel a lot.. Where’s the best place you have ever went to?
[Nicky] Definitely Japan. Tokyo.
[Me] Nice.. I actually thought of going there.. What do you like about it?
[Nicky] *Begins to explain……*
[Me] Cool, okay good.. Since I’m like being a tour guide right now in Singapore, you’re gonna be mine in Japan. The meals are on me. But you’ll watch our clothes alright?
[Nicky] Hahahaha, sounds fun. I’m in.
[Me] Ahh.. you’re good at playing along huh?!! Nice, I like that a lot.
[Nicky] *just keeps laughing*
[Pause]
[Nicky] So are you working or still studying?
[Me] I’m working. 2 jobs. Totally thrilling life. And I’m going to pick up on Mixed Martial Arts. Its really my passion. People always think that its violent and stuff, but it really teaches people about perseverance, hard work and respect. Do you do any sports?
[Nicky] Yes, I do. I play volleyball.. Hey.. hold on, I think we should cross the street. *grabbed my wrist and ran across the street* *As she walked..* aaaahhhhhhhhh!!
And she was sooo excited. And she has some interest at me. Which girl would do that to a guy he doesn’t know whom she isn’t interested with?
We started walking slowly under the void deck.. With lots of incidental touches.. And she began to hold my hand, and then hit my dick.
[Nicky] Oh my god. You’re horny.
[Me] What?
[Nicky] Nothing.
[Me] I’m horny? What are you talking about? You touched my bro in my pants here!
Lalala, I was erecting for no reason actually. Shit, TMI.
[Nicky] Its hard. You’re so horny! *she sounded turned off*
[Me] Wait wait wait. You touched my dick. You’re horny riiiteeee??
[Nicky] Yeahh, I’m actually quite a horny person..
[Me] I knew it!
Got closer to her. My arms around her.
[Nicky] So how big is it?
[Me] Well, you try it yourself.. And how is yours?
[Nicky] Its tight. You know what? My nipples are hard. Here, come touch it.. *She flashed. LOL*
[Nicky] You know, we should go somewhere..like a hotel you know..

Okay shan’t say much, you know what happened next.

 

Keep it real? lol.

Ry Aurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA

FR: At the bus stop / Being sexy with your body language and the sexual vibe

Well just a story to share with you guys:

I was waiting for the bus near to my place. I just reached that place and at that time, there were two beautiful ladies who don’t know each other. One is standing next to me, dressed up like a model, and another one sitting diagonally behind where I was standing has a girl-next-door’s look, just that she’s very pretty, and has beautiful eyes and a very nice smile.

I’m dressed up pretty nicely right now – actually I dress up almost every day because it’s a good habit to do so. So I was just waiting for the bus when I noticed the girl-next-door looking at me. I was still in my own head, so I didn’t really care. And then the bus arrived. Girl-next-door was looking and me, and I simply looked at her, noticing her noticing me, as I gave her a nice little “you like me huh?” smirk. And then she smiled back at me. I ignored the bus, and walked up to her.

[Me] *Stroked my two fingers, signaling her to come to me as I gave her a smile. There was a strong eye contact that we gave each other.”

[Grl-next-door]*Stood up and walked to me. Her body was close to mine.*

[Me] *Stroked my two fingers again, signaling her head to come closer*

[Girl-next-door] *Her head came closer to mine.*

[Me] *Put my hand on her lower back gently…and then pulled her closer to me with a jerk. She did not retaliate.*

I started to breathe heavily, breathing out through my mouth. She started to do that too. The moment was very intense. We made out afterwards.

And then I remembered “Okay damn RyO, you’ve got to go for your class! Lol, we kissed goodbye, set up some time to meet each other (I love my life) and boarded the next bus. Now I’m late. Dammit!

I found out that the whole thing itself doesn’t involve anything verbal as I type on this post. It purely came from my body language and from projecting a very sexual vibe. I actually read David’s article on How to Project a Sexual Vibe, and though it took me some time to understand and successfully use it, it turned out to be very useful. I have no other say on how to project it, because I think he has said enough about it, but I just wanna add up that after some time, if you can really make use of your sexual vibe and make it grow really strong, even you can feel it!

My advice is that if you’re new, get your basics right – your basic body language, what you wear, your eye contact, your basic social skills, get your attraction mindset right which is to:

1)      Have fun

2)      Make others have fun

3)      Make emotional connections and seeing if they meet your standards

– or else you might pose a risk of being a creepy pervert. And plus, something that I do to easily project a sexual vibe is by letting her traits seduce you and from that itself, you can really go far with her (try using this once you are familiar with using your sexual vibe). Heh. So yep, all the best future charmers

Keep it real~

Ry Aurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA

Just be Attractive, dude.

I’m typing this post down as I’m sitting down on the train at 2.45pm, on my journey to meet one of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen for a date. She has quite a reasonable height of 5 feet 7 inches, long legs.. sharp, sparkling eyes and a beautiful smile.. Her looks isn’t a joke at all. Really stunning as hell. It’s our first date after having sex together and we’re going for a nice dinner together before saying goodbye to her and for me to go to David’s free Art of Flirting seminar.

 

As I sit on the train right now, there’s a lovely couple sitting opposite of me..flirting around with each other. They seemed to have a great connection with each other. I’ve got to admit that the lady is really beautiful – long black hair, really nice red dress that she’s wearing, flat stomach and a really sweet face. The guy is just your average guy – curly hair, wears t-shirt and jeans.. nice shoes though..

It’s one of the few times I see something like this – beautiful Jane attached to your average Joe.

There are lots of my friends who have been wondering why such a couple would exist. And they would grumble and sometimes whine that such a thing can actually happen.

Does this guy have “Game”? Is this guy smooth? Is he one hell of a charmer? Is he good in bed?

My answer is: I don’t really care. Seriously. If he’s attached to the beautiful lady then really, good for them. Now stop poking your nose into another person’s love life and do something about yours.

I really believe in the quote that “What you have with you does not determine who you are as a person, but it is who you are as a person that will determine what you will have with you.”

Think about this as we look back at the couple sitting opposite of me:

Well, the beautiful lady is attached to that average-looking man but is he attractive? Maybe he is, but maybe he isn’t. Right now, he looks like he isn’t a common attractive man. Maybe they’re attached together because of some reason. It’s a typical scenario showing that a man might be attached to a beautiful woman, but it doesn’t mean that he’s attractive.

But hey, look at the men I know who are attractive who are attached to beautiful women.

David is attached to a very beautiful and warm lady (Sheiryn, you’re welcome ).. Christian Hudson has had relationships and dates with very beautiful women and is currently attached to one. My Natural Aussie friend has had dates with hot ladies that can melt you with their eyes. The common similarities that they have are that firstly, they ARE attractive men and secondly, they have the mindset of an attractive man.

 

The bottom line is really simple: As long as you are attractive as a person, you can get a woman that an attractive man usually has.

 

This concept also applies to being rich, for example. Paris Hilton is rich – if you know her background, you’ll know it well. But she doesn’t have the mindset, the skills, and the habits of what a person should have to become rich. But look at Robert Kiyosaki – he was born in a not-so-rich family, but the fact that he starts having the mindset of a rich person, he gets the skills of what a rich man has and he worked for it. And look at him now; he’s Mr. Multi-millionaire.

 

So if you want to be able to be get a supermodel to be your wife for example, you just have to be a person who is attractive enough to get one. Take action. Get the knowledge of what an attractive man really is, how he behaves, his mindset.. everything about him. And then be that person. If you happen to know a coach, company, or material which teaches you on how to be one, I’d say go ahead and practice what they teach you. And please please please take action

 

Keep it real~

Ry Aurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA

28 Nov 2011 / Organizing an Event to Help New Dating Students Have Fun

It’s just the start of a new week and Rockstar Night will be on this Friday.

Shit, I don’t know why but something in me is just not feeling right. I just feel like I’m getting rusty although I’ve not been hitting the clubs for only a week. Oh well, I guess I just have to do some massive flirting later on with as many women as I see for the whole week. HAHAHA. Sounds like a good plan..

Well recently, I’ve offered to conduct a Make a Fool out of Yourself Day to some selected friends, a day where people who want to free themselves out of ego validation, outcome dependence and social stiffness. The plan is for them to break outside their social comfort zone and do many silly things and stunts. What kind of stunts? Well one of the things they’ll be doing is to offer to get spanked by people who are walking by the street.

There will be no “pick-up” involved. The mindset that I want to help the “subjects” achieve is just to have fun and make other people have fun (notice that I mentioned “subjects”. LOL. Hahaha, I sound really mean. I’m really gonna make them suffer!)

This event will be organized probably for the first time ever by myself (a less extreme version is Aura Dating Academy’s Admission Congress) after a handful of newer students in the dating field have been approaching and asking me how to have fun, neediness and social stiffness. Like what I said, this will be the FIRST time ever, and it’s not proven to be effective YET, so once this event is over, I’ll be updating you if it is. I’ll also request for some testimonials and personal feedbacks on the event.

My passion to help people at their dating and love life has significantly increased. It feels like an infection which has spread throughout my mind. Maybe it’s because I really see myself in the past when I looked at some of these people – helpless, not so much in love with myself and just want to have someone to like me back.

And who knows, maybe these little things that I do can help to change people’s life. I don’t really care if I’m the greatest guy in this or whatever, I’m doing this because it’s my passion. Word!

Keep it real~

Ry Aurjandro

Singapore Dating Academy: AURA